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Allie Anderson Cardon
A Life Sketch
Today we say our earthly good-byes to a dear sweet
daughter of God; our mother, sister, grandmother, great grandmother, neighbor
and friend.
Mother's sweet spirit began
here on earth on a bitter cold day on the 4th of February 1910. Her father,
Soren Carlos Anderson, and her mother, Hulda Amanda Peterson were living in a
farming community in Southern Utah in a place called Deseret, in
Millard
County
. Her parents and grandparents are
all of Danish heritage and Allie's mother and Aunt Annie spoke in their native
tongue.
Mom smiled her famous smile
when she talked about how her name came about. Mom said “her parents were on
their way to church to have her named Annabelle, but at the last moment they
changed their minds and named her Allie. She smiled and said, "I'm so glad
they did. "
Mom was the first of five children. She had one sister and three brothers:
Lena Peterson lives in Delta and Merlin Anderson lives in
Oak
City
. She was preceded in death by two brothers, Carlos Isador Anderson and Amos
Amber Anderson.
Mom often commented on how much fun they had as children.
Mom was raised in a religious atmosphere by humble parents who were active
in the church. She often told me that she was always told that she was loved and
that her family was very close. "It was a wonderful life for a child to
grow up in.
My mother said her parents always taught by example.
She told me of the special
memories she has of her grandmother Anderson who always had good things to eat
and interesting things to look at such as her old spinning wheel.
Mom said her grandmother showed them how to cord the wood and make batting
- for quilts. She had a loom she used to weave rugs and make cloth for their
clothing.
She was reared on a farm so she said they had plenty of things to do
including work, play and recreation of all kinds.
In the summer during haying time Mom said her sister
Lena
and her would go with their father out to the hay field. He had 80 acres of hay
and we would get two loads of hay and bring it home before breakfast. "We
tramped and spread it around on the hay racks while our dad pitched it on the
racks," she said.
And of course A1lie's mother
needed help with the house, washing, and cleaning and other things.
Mom helped in the garden, picked raspberries and strawberries, milked the
cows, took them to pasture and churned cream for butter. In the fall she helped
pick apples, hauled sugar cane to make molasses, hauled corn to the silo to be
chopped, and helped her dad with the horses. "We worked very hard,"
she explained.
Mom told me they had good times and bad times but, we really enjoyed each
other, Some of Mom's fondest memories included. Going with the family to the
canyon on Easter Sunday for a picnic. Horseback riding all day in the summer
time along the foothills and in the canyon and coming home at dusk or after
dark. swimming in the creek. and water fights.
"We had fun doing whatever we did," she said. "I had a
happy childhood."
Mom went to elementary school in a small building not far from home.
"It had four large rooms and two grades in each room," she said."
And we had religion classes after school. She said the teacher would give them a
poem to learn and that if they didn't get it learned they would have to stay
after school, sometimes not going home until after dark.
One rule she remembers about school is that if they were late for class
instead of playing during recess they had to march to the music of the big
bands. Mom said she enjoyed that, so sometimes she was late on purpose.
One time she received a picture of all the prophets for 100% attendance
for three years m a row.
Spelling was her best subject and she loved spelling bees. One time,
however, she got caught writing the words on her desk and "boy did I get in
trouble, " she said.
When she was 13 she got rheumatism in her ankles. She said they tried
everything but it keep going up her body into every joint and into her collar
bone. She said she was so sick and was in bed for over a month. Her mother told
her that it was through the faith and prayers of the family and others and the
blessings of the Lord that she got well.
Mom said she was quite proud when she joined the
Oak
City
choir when she was 14. "I loved singing," she said. "When she
was teaching a primary class she taught them a Danish song called, Here the
Call. Mom and her sister
Lena
would sing together in MIA and other programs.
Mom told me they had a player piano at home and that their home soon
became a frequent meeting place for young folks and that her Mom always had
refreshments prepared.
Mom said she used to like to sew and that she often made her own dresses.
I remember her telling us about one dress that she had made for a dance
and how proud she was of it. She was told she was the prettiest girl on the
dance floor and Mom's eyes lit up as she related the story.
She said she loved the town dances and that she would rather dance than
eat. She said they would even dance in the rain during intermission; they would
then wipe off the floor and dance some more. Her favorite dances were the fast
dances. She laughed when she told me that some of the old farmers would ask them
to dance.
"We would keep the slow waltz dances for them"
she explained. "Dancing with some of them was like walking up and down the
floor."
Mom said it was one of those summer dances that she met our father, Jesse
Leo Cardon. She said they had a lot of fun. She fell in love with Jesse and two
years later, on March 16, 1933, they were married in
Deseret
. They lived in Hinckley for a few years, then
Oak
City
, back to
Hinckley
and then to Delta. During those few years in
Millard
County
Kenneth
, Arnold, Colleen and Jesse were born.
Dad worked for the WPA for $40
a month. Times were very hard but Mom said they got along and "we were
happy. "
"I worked in a cafe in Delta for a while earning $2.50 a week and
lived with Mrs.Peterson, Lloyd's mother. (Lloyd was
Lena
's husband). Then later I got a job in the Southern Hotel in Delta doing the
laundry and cleaning the rooms, earning $1.00 a day board and room. It wasn't so
bad making beds and cleaning the rooms but doing the laundry and hanging out the
sheets, pillow cases and towels in the winter was kinda ruff when they would
freeze on the line, and they would have to be pried off the line."
Mom said that later when they were still living in Delta, Dad went to work
at the poultry plant in American Fork. He would stay there during the week and
come back home during the weekend. But that was short-lived because the time
traveling was just too much.
The week before Christmas of 1940 the family moved to Lehi. It was here that
Donna Mae, Margo, Lois, Dolores and Gary were born. Our home then was just west
of the old tabernacle.
The home was very small with a lot of little bodies
running around. But there was a lot of good times. Thanksgiving was especially a
great time for us. After the big meal Dad sent us to the movies and Mom was left
with all the dishes. She said she didn't mind because it was peaceful with just
her and Dad there. Dad would play his harmonica and Mom said she really enjoyed
that. At Christmas Mom would decorate the house with big red bells. She was
always trying to make it fun for us.
I remember the quiet times with Mom as she talked with
us and would lie down with us to take a nap.
We were in the 5th ward at that time. Mom was my primary
teacher at one time and I remembered how I looked up to here. She was a great
lady.
In October 1951 we moved to the north end of town, to
the 4th ward. She again taught primary and it was fun helping her cut out
pictures and things and helping her to get ready for her class.
Mom loved visiting teaching. She became very fond of
Fern Russon who was her visiting teaching companion. Fern was always giving Mom
starts of flowers and plants. Mom would plant them in the yard and on the ditch
bank. Early in the morning before the rest of us were awake she could be found
tending her plants.
The flowers would always grow but they took a lot of
hard work. She always had a beautiful flower garden and it brightened up the
yard a great deal. She was very proud of her flowers and vegetable garden.
Dad died Oct. 15, 1957. It was very hard on Mom as she
was left with so many children to care for. But she gracefully carried on taking
care of all of us.
Mom was sealed to Dad in the temple on June 26, 1962.
She had prayed for this event to happen for many years. It gave her great
comfort to have that goal accomplished.
Mom worked for the training school full time for four
years and gained a great love for those special children of God.
After all
her children were grown, she moved to lower Lehi where she lived until she
passed away.
She served as a foster grandparent at the training
school for 23 years and loved the time she spent there.
In her later years I watched Mom as she diligently
served others in her ward, always willing to give of herself. When someone
needed food taken in she was there, her frail little body delivering food to
someone who was sick or just had a baby.
Even in the hospital, just before she passed away, she
was thinking of others. I was there when she was talking to her visiting
teaching companion about visiting one of the members. Mom said "no, don't
worry I can give her a call, it won't be a visit but I can give her a call. She,
even in her last days, was fulfilling her calling as a visiting teacher.
All through my life I have watched Mom in each stage of
her life teach by example. I can truly say she has been my hero. A person who
has always tried to live with Christ being the center of her life.
She taught me, she guided me, she walked beside me and
through her as a young child and now as an adult she helped me gain a testimony
of the Gospel.
Mom's influence has been great. I am grateful for you
Mom. I love you and the time I spent with you.
Mom has always had a sense of humor, even in the nursing
home. While there, one of her dresses happened to be put on another lady sharing
the room with her. Mom commented, "1 have a dress like that. " Lois
told her that she thought that was her dress. Mom replied, "Well she
doesn't have the full attire--she doesn't have my belt on."
On Sunday, Aug. 3, 1997, our mother's sweet spirit
gently and peacefully slipped out of her body and she was taken home to embrace
so many that have been waiting for a reunion with her. Bye Mom, we love you.
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